Key Advice if You Are Looking for a Comfortable Human Life – 37 Practices – Session 7

Wishing everyone a good morning, our resident teacher, Acharya Lhakpa Tshering, invited us to first give rise to the enlightened thought:

“Through this practice, whatever merit we gain, may this merit become the cause to attain enlightenment for the benefit of all sentient beings.”

Sitting Without Distraction

Following brief instructions regarding our physical posture, Acharya Lhakpa emphasized how to sit without distraction. He clarified that this does not mean that we are constantly trying to be undistracted. If we push or pressure ourselves to be undistracted all the time, the method itself can become a distraction. Instead, we just try to bring our minds back to their natural state, in this present moment. “When we sit in the present moment with awareness and our mind gets distracted or wanders off, just simply be aware of it or recollect. That will be enough.” 

Our Goal after Going for Refuge

So far, we have covered seven verses from among the thirty-seven verses of Ngulchu Tokmé’s Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva. Acharya Lhakpa reminded us that the last verse spoke about going for refuge. We go for refuge to the three jewels, with the Buddha as our goal or destination, the Dharma being the path to reach that, and the Sangha as our companion. 

While some of us may have the thought of attaining buddhahood, others are okay with simply having a human life. Those who are okay with that, Acharya shared, have a sense of contentment, thinking, “I don’t want to achieve buddhahood. I don’t want to go that far. I just want to be a human being.” The eighth verse teaches what to do to maintain that kind of state and be a good human being. It reads: 

“The Sage taught that the sufferings of the lower realms,
Which are extremely difficult to bear, are the results of negative action. Therefore, even at the risk of one’s own life,
To never commit negative actions is the practice of a bodhisattva.”
– quoted from A Guide to the Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva, translated by Christopher Stagg)

Where Do the Realms Exist?

The verse points to the lower realms. These are the hell realms, the hungry ghost realms, and the animal realm. There are also the higher realms: god realm, demigod realm, and human realm. The Abhidharma teachings specify in great detail where these realms exist. Yet, Acharya Lhakpa repeated several times, we need to understand that these realms really come down to the mental disturbances or afflictions that are part of our own mindstream. Therefore, there is no need to seek them somewhere outside of ourselves.

If the afflictive emotion, taught to be the cause for being born in a particular realm and the suffering of those already born there, is present in our mindstream, at that moment, we will experience that realm ourselves. It is present within us. 

The Afflictions of the Higher Realms

Acharya Lhakpa presented a brief overview of the dominant mental affliction causing us to be born in one of the higher realms and the suffering we experience there: 

  • Gods: Pride is the main affliction. While the gods experience nothing but happiness during their life, at the time of death, due to their pride and exhaustion of merit, they undergo great suffering and fall into the realms below.  
  • Demigods: Jealousy is the dominant affliction. If we, like the demigods, are jealous, we experience the same suffering stemming from their fighting with the gods and each other.
  • Humans: Desire is the primary affliction. Our attachment towards ourselves, possessions, and unfulfilled wishes leads to constant discontent and suffering. This realm is therefore known as the desire realm. 

Acharya Lhakpa explained how the higher realms – God, Demigod, and Human – are characterized by pride, jealousy, and desire, respectively. As he taught, when these mental afflictions are present, we find ourselves in the corresponding realm, experiencing its suffering within ourselves. 

We May Already Be in the Lower Realms

While Acharya discussed the causes for falling down from the human realm into one of the three lower realms – hells, hungry ghosts, animals –he kept pointing out how we already find ourselves in one of these realms when the primary or main afflictive emotion of that realm is present in our life. 

  • Hell Realms: The dominant affliction is aggression. If we consider our mindstream to be like water, aggression can cause it to become either extremely hot or very cold. This results in being hot-headed or stiff with anger, respectively, ultimately harming both ourselves and others. Therefore, those who are satisfied with living in the human realms must avoid aggression. 
  • Hungry Ghost Realms: The main affliction is that of stinginess or miserliness. The hungry ghosts are said to suffer from insatiable thirst and hunger. Due to their tiny throats, even if they try, they are not able to consume anything. Similarly, we might have great wealth and possessions in this human life, but if we have this mental affliction of avarice, that is really nothing else than the suffering of the hungry ghost. 
  • Animal Realms: The primary affliction is ignorance. While there are many different types of animals, generally they all suffer from stupidity and dullness. The root of that is ignorance. What this means is that they don’t know what to adopt (virtue) and what to reject (non-virtue) and suffer the consequences. 

In contrast to humans, the beings in these three lower realms lack the notion of what to adopt or reject. Even if they consider doing good, they don’t truly have an opportunity to practice virtue and abandon non-virtuous actions of body, speech, and mind. Whenever we experience the subsequent suffering of one of these three main afflictions, we can say that we have already fallen into the related lower realm. 

Who Created Our Suffering?

Now, some wonder who created the suffering of the lower realms? Acharya Lhakpa explained that there is no creator of sorts, neither a god nor a devil. These realms, showing the suffering of the mental afflictions leading to experiencing them, are created by our own wrongdoings. There is not some kind of rule-maker. It is entirely due to us committing non-virtuous actions of body, speech, and mind. 

Furthermore, Acharya said, it is taught by the Buddha in the Sutras that the consequences of our negative actions will not somehow be lost. “Once the causes and conditions come together, sooner or later, we will need to face the consequences.” This is why, he commented, that the eighth verse says we should never commit negative actions, “even at the risk of one’s own life.” If we do and are born into one of the lower realms, we will no longer know what to adopt and reject. Thus, falling and falling, our suffering will prolong and be stuck in a samsara for a very long, long time. 

Bodhisattva’s Practice for a Good Human Life

To conclude our session, Acharya Lhakpa emphasized the key takeaway from the eighth verse: Although we have a human life, there is always the risk and fear of falling into the lower realms, which is nothing but the suffering we experience due to mental afflictions like aggression, avarice, and ignorance being present in our mindstream, and the consequences of the negative actions we then commit. 

“If we do not long for enlightenment but consider a human life ‘as just enough,’ what should we practice? We should avoid those afflictive emotions and not commit negative actions through body, speech, and mind. Even at the cost of our own life.”

While doing so fully in our daily lives may be difficult, Acharya encouraged us that even some effort – at least 10% – can be of great benefit. With these final thoughts, he thanked everyone for joining and we dedicated the merit.

Mirroring Ourselves: Finding Outer and Inner Refuge – 37 Practices – Session 6

Acharya Lhakpa warmly welcomed everyone for joining us, noting that snow had recently fallen at Karmapa Center 16 and it was a bit chilly outside. Following our opening chants, he continued guiding us in the practice of śamatha. First, it is important to give rise to the heart of awakening, the intention to attain enlightenment for the sake of all sentient beings. This is why we practice the Dharma. 

Movement of mind

During our meditation practice, Acharya taught a particular technique of recognizing the movement of mind. “Whatever thought arises, virtuous thoughts, non-virtuous thoughts, or middling thoughts, let them arise and simply be aware. You don’t have to feel bad about having a bad thought. And you don’t have to get excited if you have a good thought. Simply treat it as a thought. If you find yourself chasing after thoughts and your mind wanders, don’t worry. At that time, simply be aware that your mind wandered, and it will naturally be back.” 

Verse 7: Undeceiving refuge

To begin our discussion on the seventh verse of The Thirty-Seven Practices of a Bodhisattva by Ngulchu Tokmé, we read the root text as translated by Christopher Stagg: 

“Themselves also bound in the prison of samsara,
Whom do the worldly gods have the power to protect?
Therefore, when seeking a refuge, to go for refuge
In the three jewels that will not deceive you is the practice of a bodhisattva.” (7)

This verse, Acharya Lhakpa pointed out, teaches us about going for refuge to the three jewels. While Brahma, Viṣṇu, and the like, are in the highest realms of our world due to merit accumulated in previous lives, they are still in the prison of saṃsāra. Once their merit is exhausted, they will fall down into the lower realms. Therefore, those seeking to attain enlightenment for the sake of all sentient beings should not take refuge in these “gods.” They are deceiving. We must take refuge in genuine protectors: the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha. 

Rare and Supreme: Our Destination, Path, and Companions

In Tibetan the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha, are described as kön chog (Tibetan: དཀོན་མཆོག), which literally means “rare” and “supreme.” Therefore, they are considered to be like jewels. “The Buddha” refers to what is to be attained or the result: Awakening. “It is, so to speak, the destination.” The method, Acharya continued, is the Dharma. This is the path on which we will find what to avoid and what to adopt. Finally, to travel on this journey, we need companions. This is the Sangha or community. 

The qualities of each of these can be summarized as follows: 

  • The Buddha: the most excellent abandonment and realization of our obscurations and pristine awareness, respectively;
  • The Dharma: being free from the mental afflictions and suffering;
  • The Sangha: the supreme among other communities, giving us a sense of inspiration and wanting to be like those who already engage in practicing the Dharma 

Going for Refuge: A Mirror and Ground

Taking the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha as the three jewels in the above manner is like the outer refuge. This, in turn, will serve as the condition to realize that we ourselves have the mind and potential of enlightenment within. “It is like mirroring ourselves,” Acharya said. “We will come to understand that the three jewels and their qualities are within us from the very beginning.” 

Furthermore, once we have realized this, the realization of selflessness will arise. Based on that, we will realize emptiness. As Atiśa taught in the Seven Points of Mind Training (Tib. བློ་སྦྱོངས་དོན་བདུན་མ།, lojong dön dünma), the realization of emptiness is the highest possible protection. There is nothing beyond or higher than that. 

Going for refuge to the Buddha will serve as a basis for the rest of our path. It will prevent us from falling into the miserable realms and avoid non-virtuous actions. It is the ground for those who take the vow of individual liberation as well as for those who take the bodhisattva vow. 

Two Kinds of Advice: What to Abandon and What to Adopt

Taking refuge in the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha, goes together with two kinds of advice: one relating to what things we need to abandon or give up; the other about what to adopt or accomplish. Acharya playfully noted, “After going for refuge to the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha, there are do’s and don’ts. What you should and shouldn’t do.” The first kind of advice is as follows: 

  • When going for refuge to the Buddha, we should no longer go for refuge to worldly gods. “They are not out of the woods,” Acharya taught. In the scriptures we find a quotation from the great master Padmasambhava, who said: “The leaders of the world, no matter how excellent, are deceiving; the sources of refuge, the three jewels, are undeceiving.” While the worldly gods may have great power, they are not a place of refuge. 
  • Going for refuge to the Dharma means abandoning harm or inflicting pain to sentient beings through our actions of body, speech, and mind. 
  • Having taken refuge in the Sangha, we must abandon bad companions, those who always engage in negative karma and act counter to the Dharma. 

If those three form the advice of what needs to be abandoned, then what is included in the advice of what needs to be adopted?

  • Going for refuge to the Buddha means that we should pay respect to any kind of image or representation of the Buddha, be it a statue, thangka, or the like. 
  • Going for refuge to the Dharma means that we must respect the teachings of the Buddha and the scriptures in which these teachings have been committed to writing. Acharya shared a story about his Bhutanese childhood and how his book bag offered  protection against any harm. He and his classmates had been taught to respect the words of the Buddha, and the books in his bag were written in the same Tibetan scriptures used to write down the Buddha’s teachings. No one would therefore kick the bag!
  • Going for refuge to the Sangha means being respectful towards the monastic sangha and, showing respect to the community and dharma friends who have adopted precepts or vows as part of their practice. 

How All the Teachings are Encompassed by Taking Refuge

As a way of summarizing today’s session, Acharya stressed the importance of the three jewels and going for refuge. “Sometimes we think that after taking refuge, our study and practice are totally different things while, actually, all the teachings of the Buddha — from the way of taking refuge to the three jewels — are all about the qualities of the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha.” 

Acharya illustrated that with the example of the teachings about the wisdom of buddha nature being about the Buddha. Likewise, when we think about abandoning the mental afflictions, and the truth of suffering and the origin of suffering, we speak about the Dharma. And as we progress along the path, we will get to know the paths and levels (Sanskrit: bhūmis), which show the qualities of the Sangha. 

While the teachings can be summarized in terms of the three higher trainings (moral discipline, meditative concentration, and wisdom), as Acharya taught in the previous session, he concluded: “When we think from the aspect of the three refuges, then we can say that the entire teaching of the Buddha is teaching about the three jewels.” 

Following this, we dedicated the merit, and Acharya expressed his warm wishes for everyone to have happy holidays and a happy new year!